47.避免“為榮譽而決鬥”

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47.避免“為榮譽而決鬥”



    避免“為榮譽而決鬥”,這是審慎行事的最主要的一點。那些雄才大略之人總是遠離極端,以确保不偏不倚。從一個極端到另一個極端,有很長的一段路,謹慎之人經常采取中庸之道,所以能夠從容應對。避免招惹是非比招惹是非後再全身而退要容易一些。危險考驗我們的判斷力,最好避開,而不是征服。有時,一個事端能夠引發更大的事端,以緻可能帶來恥辱。因自身秉性或種族關系,有的人容易陷入事端之中。而那些理智行事的人,對這類事總會思慮再三。征服危險并非強者,善于避險才是真正的勇士。當有傻瓜準備冒險時,你就要找借口,避免成為第二個傻瓜。

    

47.Avoid"affairsofhonour"



    Avoid"affairsofhonour"-oneofthechiefestaimsofprudence.Inmenofgreatabilitytheextremesarekeptfarasunder,sothatthereisalongdistancebetweenthem,andtheyalwayskeepinthemiddleoftheircaution,sothattheytaketimetobreakthroughit.Itiseasiertoavoidsuchaffairsthantocomewelloutofthem.Theytestourjudgmentitisbettertoavoidthemthantoconquerinthem.Oneaffairofhonourleadstoanother,andmayleadtoanaffairofdishonour.Therearemensoconstitutedbynatureorbynationthattheyeasilyenteruponsuchobligations.Butforhimwhowalksbythelightofreason,suchamatterrequireslongthinkingover.Thereismorevalourneedednottotakeuptheaffairthantoconquerinit.Whenthereisonefoolreadyfortheoccasion,onemayexcuseoneselffrombeingthesecond.